A Swinger Lifestyle can Rejuvenate your Married Life

 Swinging or, "the lifestyle," as we often refer to it with each other (sometimes indicated by a black ring on the right ring finger for those who like to advertise their proclivity), is one subculture among many with countless variations and expressions. Let me back up for a sec. Swinging, which falls under the non-monogamy umbrella, means swapping partners or playing with your own partner while others play nearby. It can happen between couples you already know or couples you meet specifically with the intention of swinging. Some people have trouble relating to the idea that sex could be an ephemeral expression of self where people come together for mutual pleasure without emotional entanglement. 

Swinging has been around in some form or fashion since man’s earliest moments. Homo erectus and then Homo sapiens were among the first to experience swinging pleasure on jungle vines. Though we really don’t have factual evidence of the unveiling of the first modern-day swing, a pendulum-type device suspended from a horizontal beam, we do find illustrative evidence in Europe and Asia of people swinging several centuries ago. You may recall from Western Civilization course studies, photos of well-dressed children playing on swings with flat board seats in the beautifully manicured Victorian gardens of the 1800s. 

So what is the swinging lifestyle all about? It's is a form of recreational sex between consenting adults, usually between two heterosexual couples or between a couple and a single female or male. Many couples find the thought of having sex with other people arousing and so swinging can be a catalyst for improving their sex life and relationship. There are people who argue that becoming swingers will improve your sex life while introducing you to new people. For some people, this is certainly true. However, without trust and communication in your marriage, swinging is going to cause more harm than good. We’ve curated this list of frequently asked questions about swinging to give you a glimpse into the lifestyle.



Most couples like to have a special code that only they know. They may have discreet phrases or gestures that mean they are attracted to the people or person they are talking to or not, or if they want to go further with a situation or wait for a while. It's important, especially for newbies, to insist on setting strict personal boundaries. Hard swinging is the term that refers to having group sex or orgies but, as we said previously, not every couple who is into the swinging lifestyle does this. The other one is wife sharing, where the husband shares his wife with other guys.

Although swinging can enhance or improve the sex lives of many couples, it's not for everyone. This couple experienced insecurities, jealousy and had real difficulties communicating well, especially about sexual issues. Swinging would have ruined their relationship instead of improving it. Swinger games require a strong relationship and a solid sense of trust and work best for couples when they see it as an enhancement to their existing relationship rather than a replacement for a failing one.

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